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Why does sex play such an important role as a metaphor of moral panic? Sex seems dangerous because it crosses the borders of our bodies. Anthropologist Mary Douglas argues that the whole, inviolate body often symbolized the sanctity of society. In sex, people’s bodies are penetrated, they leak bodily fluids, and they might lose this sense of inviolation and wholeness. Sex therefore becomes a metaphor of people’s fears of other kinds of boundary violation. Sex often seems to be pollution, which Douglas defines as “matter out of place”, especially people, actions or substances which do not conform to the rigid categories set forth by society. More recently, theorists such as Ann Stoler have shown that fears about sexual trangression concern wider fears about social and especially racial boundaries.
The fear of sex tends to erupt when social boundaries are threatened, when plague threatens a city, when subaltern people demand their rights, when politicians need an enemy. For instance, when local uprisings or nationalist movements challenged imperial authorities, the fear of the “black rapist” emerged. This did not mean that there was an actual upsurge of indigenous men attacking white women; rather, the image of the black rapist became a metaphor for fear that colonized people would attack imperialism.
These anxieties about sexual boundaries sometimes explode into “moral panics”. Moral panics happen when moralists, activists or journalists concoct hysterical popular stereotypes of those they consider sexually deviant, and blame them for a crisis in society. They stir up popular concern through sermons and speeches, and demand action, such as expulsion or even execution… Moral panics are not necessarily a response to changes in sexual behaviour, but metaphors for these wider fears about social boundaries.
Anna Clark, Desire: A History of European Sexuality, pg. 10
I had to quote almost an entire page of text, but I thought it was such an amazing insight, a way of looking at the moral panics that so often erupt in North American politics, over everything from HPV vaccinations to abortion, that I had never thought of before.
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Endings
The hospital’s dining room was full. Maybe seven or eight senior citizens - all but one spoke English. She only knew Italian and the ensuing barriers were pretty apparent. My grandmother is an isolated woman at that hospital. I always wondered why she never even had to learn English in all her years here. Florence (who is hilarious, but accidentally; and I don’t mean that we laugh at her, but there is a certain innocence in what she says that can elicit nothing but laughter from the rest of us) was sitting with her family, and I suppose it was her daughter-in-law who had come to fetch my grandmother’s water from the other room. It was the most trivial of favors, but I was suddenly overcome by the generosity, the comradery, the obvious care for a stranger displayed by a woman who has seen her husband deal with the idea of losing his mother, both physically and mentally. Rather, I was overcome by all of it, really. The people in the room (except for my sister, my dad, Florence’s son and daughter-in-law, and of course, me) were suffering. They had to be fed, and helped in and out of bed, and accompanied to the washroom. They had lost their privacy, and with it, their dignity. I kept my emotions in check, but I felt like crying.
Two hours later, I was driving back from my aunt and uncle’s house, having just said goodbye to them for a few months. My uncle C. had a back brace wrapped tightly around his midsection, giving him a slight bend in stature. For the first time, I noticed he was short. My aunt M. has been limping for months now; her left knee causes her pain and discomfort, and a certain flavor of frustration - I think it might be despair - had quickly followed her physical ailments. As I thought back to my visit, I realized that this year they would celebrate their 65th birthdays. The image of a capable couple had been replaced by a new reality, and again, I kept my emotions in check. Tears make driving into something of a challenge.
I was nibbling at my cherry pie that my aunt J. had given me when she started to ask me about my plans for the future. Having little confidence in my plans, I told her I was exploring my options, and she proceeded to lecture me about sticking with something to the end because it’s all worth it. The guilt I normally feel when I think about how much more work I could have done bubbled up to the surface, and my thoughts turned to my own parents, who want nothing but the best for me. I thought of how much I’d let them down if I didn’t do something with my life, and I thought about how hard they’ve had to work to put me through school, certainly at a cost to their own health. I noticed today that my dad’s hair is now more grey than black and he frequently complains of back aches, and my mom (usually the picture of health) has officially been sick for two weeks. They’re getting older, I thought, and I won’t have them forever. Again, I held back on really feeling the weight of this. Bit my lip, and distracted myself with more Robertson Davies.
I’m sitting here now, in my basement, staring at the words I’ve just written, and I don’t want to hold back feeling any more. I want to cry, because crying makes you feel better; but the tears just won’t come. And I think it’s because I know I won’t ever feel better about today.
Because today, I saw what can only be described as endings; with no real belief in an epilogue, I saw that truly, this, too, shall pass.
in the vaults of heart and brain.
To write: that is to sit
in judgement over one’s self. Ibsen
Coming & Crying: January 25 at Kelly Writers House: Feminism/s presents Melissa Gira Grant and Meaghan O'Connell
January 25, 2012
6pm
Kelly Writers House
3805 Locust Walk, Philadelphia, PA 19104
Join us (Melissa and Meaghan) at Kelly Writers House to talk Coming & Crying, writing, feminism, and ladybiz. There will be a reception and there will be books!If you live in Philadelphia, come hang out with us at the Kelly Writer’s House, which as I understand it is a very utopian little place at UPenn which is, among other virtues, employer to thewordunheard.
Hopefully some of you live in the area and are up for some awkward conversation!
OMG THE PERSON WHO INSPIRED ME TO BLOG IS COMING TO MY SCHOOL THIS IS INCREDIBLE EVERYONE COME (and cry)
Auld Lang Syne
2012 is going to bring the biggest life changes for me, it’s hard not to think of the magnitude of it all. Feeling neither hopeful, nor hopeless; excited, nor anxious; fearful nor fearless - or perhaps all of those things at once - I will instead say, simply, that when I reflect on my past, and 2011 in particular, I will remember it for the people in my life who have made a world of difference.
Thanks to all those who have walked alongside me in 2011; you are wonderful beyond words.
Growing up
There’s a song by Mumford and Sons that goes: “And my head told my heart ‘let love grow’ but my heart told my head ‘this time no’.” I came across it and realized that maybe even a few months ago, I would have identified with this line. I even have a lengthy post detailing a classic ‘head vs. heart’ battle, of sorts. Honestly, though, it all seems so silly.
It’s impossible to generalize and describe what everyone goes through going up, but those lyrics (or more accurately, how.. well, stupid I found them to be) made me realize how silly, and childish I’ve been, pitting my head vs. heart, or my intuition vs. my intellect, etc. I can understand why it’s a popular dichotomy, but it’s also a false one.
Time to grow out of that, isn’t it? They’re one in the same. Head or heart, it’s all me, and maybe this year’s lesson was learning how to listen better to Me. And of course, I am large and contain multitudes, but ultimately, I seek (as does everyone in the world) happiness for myself. The old ‘head vs. heart’ game is just a way of representing two different paths to travel, aimed at the same destination; how surprised am I to find that in fact, the paths run parallel and alone, get me nowhere? Instead, the best way for me to live authentically is to follow the path that lies somewhere in between.
I’m asking him to change his ways
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change
Man in the Mirror, Michael Jackson
Outdated, sure, but sometimes old songs really sink in at the most (in)convenient of times.
On what is probably a related note, I’m home.
Yep. About time.
I seem to be a magnet for this sort of thing… and this time I was only tangentially related.
There are a million relevant quotes I could post about this, and there are a million things I could say about it. I could analyze him, the situation, or maybe why he could possibly think that death threats and violent posts are appropriate. Instead, I’ll just turn the page on this and remind myself that this time, the other guy didn’t turn bulimic.
Progress?
Part of the cruel genius of capitalism lies in its ability to make all activity within it seem natural and inevitable. What we describe as “consumption” can be seen from orbit as an incredibly complicated interchange, created by elite institutions, enforced quite literally with the threat of violence, propped up by states and coercive governments, and generally as far from a state of nature as is possible. Yet the steady accumulation of monetary exchanges over the course of life conditions each of us to see consumption as an inextricable part of our being.
Given the emptiness of the material conditions of their lives, the formerly manic competitors must come to invest the cultural goods they consume with great meaning. Meaning must be made somewhere; no one will countenance standing for nothing. So the poor proxy of media and cultural consumption comes to define the individual. In many ways, cultural products such as movies, music, clothes, and media are the perfect vehicle for the endless division of people into strata of knowingness, savvy, and cultural value. These cultural products have no quantifiable values, yet their relative value is fiercely debated as if some such quantifiable understanding could be reached. They are easily mined for ancillary content, the TV recaps and record reviews and endless fulminating in comments and forums that spread like weeds. (Does anyone who watches Mad Men— I’m a fan— not blog about it?) They are bound up with celebrity, both real and petty. They can inspire and so trick us into believing that our reactions are similarly worthy of inspiration. And they are complex and varied enough that there is always more to know and more rarefied territory to reach, the better to climb the ladder one rung higher than the person the next desk over.
There is a problem, though. The value-through-what-is-consumed is entirely illusory. There is no there there. This is what you can really learn about a person by understanding his or her cultural consumption, the movies, music, fashion, media, and assorted other socially inflected ephemera: nothing. Absolutely nothing. The Internet writ large is desperately invested in the idea that liking, say, the Wire says something of depth and importance about the liker, and certainly that the preference for this show to CSI tells everything. Likewise the Internet exists to perpetuate the idea that there is some meaningful difference between fans of this band or that, or Android and Apple, or that there is a Slate lifestyle and a This Recording lifestyle and one for Gawker or the Hairpin or wherever. Not a word of it is true. There are no Apple people. Buying an iPad does nothing to delineate you from anyone else. Nothing separates a Budweiser man from a microbrew guy. That our society insists that there are differences here is only our longest con.
This endless posturing, pregnant with anxiety and roiling with class resentment, ultimately pleases no one. There are a vast number of websites and blogs devoted to media, culture, and fashion. When was the last time that you read one and emerged refreshed by the joy and authenticity of expression that you encountered? How many pieces do you have to read before you accumulate the satisfaction necessary for a single genuine smile? Yet this emptiness doesn’t compel people to turn away from the sorting mechanism. Instead, it seduces them into drawing further and further in.
This is why the resentment machine is concerned with resentment. The bitterness that surrounds these distinctions is a product of their inability to actually make us distinct. Nothing is so endlessly provoking to us as those who are most like us, and the reality is that there is little to separate the cultural signifiers of postcollegiate middle class upwardly-oriented-if-not-upwardly-mobile Americans. But, again, people feel there is nowhere else to turn, so they invest more and more of themselves in what they consume. Faced with the failure of their cultural affinities to define an authentic and fulfilling self, they double down on the importance of those affinities, and confront the continued failure with a formless resentment.
The savviest of the media and culture websites tap into this resentment as directly as they dare. They write endlessly about what is overrated. They assign specific and damning personality traits to the fan bases of unworthy cultural objects. They invite comments that tediously parse microscopic distinctions in cultural consumption. They engage in criticism as a kind of preemptive strike against those who actually create. They glamorize pettiness in aesthetic taste. The few artistic works they lionize are praised to the point of absurdity, as various acolytes try to outdo each other in hyperbole. They relentlessly push the central narrative that their readers crave, that consumption is achievement and that creators are to be distrusted and “put in their place.” They deny the frequently sad but inescapable reality that consumption is not creation and that only the genuinely creative act can reveal the self.
This, then, is the role of the resentment machine: to amplify meaningless differences and assign to them vast importance for the quality of individuals. For those who are writing the most prominent parts of the Internet— the bloggers, the trendsetters, the uber-Tweeters, the tastemakers, the linkers, the creators of memes and online norms— online life is taking the place of the creation of the self, and doing so poorly.
The Resentment Machine (via langer)